Indecision?

Here's a question: What do girls really care about when it comes to choosing their guys? Do they always want the buff idiot, or do some really want the average looking nice guy? Do chicks really take the time to investigate and really get to know someone before they jump into a relationship or is it just a quick glance at a 6 pack that drives a girl to want something that ultimately will hurt her? Don't women want to be treated properly, like the ladies that they are? Honestly, I believe that there is a low abundance of courteous people in the world, and it just seems like they settle for what is in front of them. I think chicks also have greater emotional attachments when being pushed away, neglected or used. It keeps them fighting to change these brutish men into gentlemen when really they will probably never change. You cannot get a guy to fall in love with you if he doesn't have the will to do it in the first place.
Also, all you beautiful girls out there, you have it almost just as bad. Guys love to date pretty women just to say oh boy I have a hot chick. Then they get strung along to be instruments of bragging. They arent talked about in the way that they emote themselves to the guy, rather they are talked about as if to pluck apart each physical attribute and exalt it as the holy grail for the relationship game.
And here's the trivial issue behind cleavage: Chicks don't want it to be looked at, but they don't cover it and actually take the effort to exxagerate it; powder, glitter and all. I mean I will always appreciate a nice pair of boobs, and by all means flaunt your god-given beauty and curves, but just don't do it if you want a guy not to look at them...I mean come on, duh! I make it a habit always to make eye contact, and I allow myself one quick glance a day per pair only if they are popping out. I used to have a friend who would stare at them as if they were a girl's eyes and they could see out of them...what a gentleman!
Word of advice: Don't settle with a guy who makes you cry all the time until you have played the field and maybe at least gone out once or twice with a true gentleman who will appreciate your feelings and actually listen to you. What is there to LOSE but to discover that you can find hapiness around the corner: you just have to take the path you might not normally take. I regret not ever dating alot in HS and now it is hard to find a truly nice girl who wants to have fun and not focus on the negative aspects of life (aka bitchy). Not all girls are bitchy or whiney, i just can't find any who arent that are open for conversation. You don't have to be absolutely gorgeous to find someone, you are probably just have high standards. I learned that 5% of the entire population actually looks like the hot guys and models on tv and in magazines. Don't set your hopes high for a blond haired, blue eyed surfer dude complete with ripped abs, a tan complexion and the good boy personality. Doesn't exist in great numbers. Appearance only exists in the physical world, far less that what you can obtain through the spiritual world where hearts collide and souls combine.
That was my thought for today! Hopefully girls realize these things and aren't as oblivious as they sometimes seem to be